“Yeah, many can add a small amount of a “white” happiness color to your “red” simple life color but it’s easier for one of them to add a big amount of “black” sadness color to that mix of “red and white” happy life color and all becomes “black” sadness color; You lose a “white” happiness color; you lose a “red” simple life color; you lose a mix of “red and white” color; You only get a “black” sadness color.”